That's okay I love the way you lie.
Sometimes I feel like I am the only one dealing with something like this. I moved 700 miles away from my family and my friends to be with my husband, and don't get me wrong I LOVE my husband and he is absolutely amazing, but I didn't know that this move was going to cause me to lose all of my friends.
The entire time that Adam was on deployment, I was back at home, and all my friends were nothing but supportive. The time passed by so quickly because I stayed busy with my friends and family, but now I hardly ever talk to any of them.
Before I moved, I expressed my fear of this happening to my friends, but they said that it would never happen. Sadly, they were wrong, and I know that they are not the only ones to blame because I could try harder to keep in contact with them.. but honestly I feel like all of our lives are so different now that we don't have too much to talk about anymore.
Maybe I'm just being selfish? Maybe I'm just being too needy? Maybe I just need to learn to be okay on my own?
Yeah, Maybe.
But that doesn't make it any easier to deal with. I kinda feel betrayed, like everyone's just forgotten about me since I've left. Like they all lied when they said that we wouldn't lose touch.
Am I the only one that this has happened too? If not, what did you do to make it easier? It seems like making friends here is impossible... Any tips on how to be more successful at this?
Leave a comment and let me know!
xoxo mrs. krys
Mine is a different situation but same problem. I left school 4 years ago now but only keep in touch with 2 friends which is so sad! You always say "keep in touch!" but it never happens :( Don't get me wrong though, love my besties!
ReplyDeleteOn the making new friends front I suggest joining some local groups or something or volunteer job?
awh, thank you for your suggestions! I'll have to look into something around my house. :)
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